Thursday, October 25, 2012

Boracay 2012 ^^



I missed Boracay so much! It's been 4 years since my last visit ^^ Thanks to my friend Zen who booked our flight months prior so we can get a really good deal.

First stop was Kalibo, my friend Renan -- R as we call him -- has a flat there.It's actually his family's ancestral house. His Lola cooks mean meals OMG I might've gained 5 pounds instantly in 1 day. 

R and I fetching Zen and Tan-tan at Kalibo Int'l airport.
 

Hanging in our suite :)


We got stranded on our way to Caticlan Jetty port from Kalibo. Our van broke down. Typical. What else could we do? Picture taking of course.
 

Boracay atlast!

My pretty friend Zen :) Sunset shot
 
Henna time ^^ For only 50 pesos, yes you heard me right. Got braids too. Love 'em.  

 

No time to waste. First Night is party at Juice Bar. Four years ago, I was at the same bar :)  


50 Shades of Grey (semi book review)


I would not normally do a book review of a novel that I haven’t even finished reading. This one is an exception. I simply find myself unable to continue any further. You guessed it right, it’s not my cup of tea. This critique is based on the 90 pages of the book that I have read so far – a semi book review if there is such a thing.
50 Shades of Grey is a fan fiction turned novel by British author E.L. James based on Twilight characters Edward Cullen and Bella Swan. The names of the protagonists were changed to Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey. Much like their Twilight counterparts Bella and Edward, Anastasia is naive and Christian is a narcissist. Peace.
In a nutshell, it was an initial attraction between two people that turned into a sexual fantasy. Really, that’s basically it. I can’t elaborate any further since the book was very thinly imagined and poorly written. Perhaps I could have made my life easier and just gave a one word comment about it instead of writing a semi-review – could’ve just said ‘horrible’ and be done with it.
Why all the buzz? Beats me. Sex sells I guess. They say teenagers and mid-aged women would enjoy reading the book and find the sexual content exciting to read. Well I’m 26, maybe I’m just not the target market. Or is it a matter of personal taste? Maybe and maybe not. But hey, if you enjoy reading the book then good for you, no need to be ashamed. I can imagine a teenager holding an Ipad, reading an Ebook of 50 Shades and getting giddy over it. Again, if it’s your thing, so be it. Erotica is simply not the genre for me – honestly I didn’t even know such a genre exists until this.
May I just add that I got sick of the name ‘Anastasia’ all of a sudden. It was irritatingly mentioned so many times. And funny how Grey’s first name is ‘Christian.’ Funny.
If I learned anything from this book, it opened my eyes about the BDSM thing (bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism). I was like, “Woah! People actually do that? Crazy.” Yeah, maybe I’m the naïve one. Excuse my next statement, it’s like written porn. I can’t believe I just said that either – oh well. If it's your cup of tea or if you’re just mainly curious then give it a try and decide for yourself.
40 million copies of this book were sold worldwide. Good for the author. I've read that she just  began writing fan fictions in 2009. Amateur writer hits it big time. Very impressive. They are doing a movie too, right? That will probably be a lot better than the book since you can get really creative w/ a film and the book certainly lacks creativity.
As a conclusion, I was obviously less than impressed myself. Do I recommend it? No.
To each his own.
No hating. Just blogging.

Perks of Being a Wallflower (film review)






Right after I saw the film and went out of the cinema, I told myself that my plan to read the book before watching the movie backfired on me. I shouldn’t have done that.
Since we all know that the movie is an adaptation of the novel with the same title, a comparison between the film and the book is inevitable. But for the sake of fair review let’s try to critique the film independently of the book.
It was definitely an entertaining movie. It’s not your typical high-school flick wherein the storyline solely focuses on teenage-love, sex, drugs, alcohol, partying and other teen-troubles. Perks delves on much deeper subjects that teenagers go through such as the complexities of  family relationship, child abuse, teen depression, homosexuality and the traumatic impact it may cause.
The film captured the 90’s tone pretty well. Also, the use of music made the movie come alive. I particularly enjoyed the scene wherein Charlie was just lying on his bed while listening to the song Asleep by The Smiths. The tunnel scene was pretty brilliant too when Sam (Watson) went to the back of the pick-up truck and did the titanic pose while the music on the radio was playing out loud. Any scene where music was involved was a good scene.


The acting of the leads were pretty compelling too. I almost cried on the scene where Sam and Charlie was on the bed, about to kiss for the first time. Logan Lerman was an okay Charlie and Emma Watson was an okay Sam. I particularly adored Ezra Miller who played Nothing/Patrick. In my opinion he was the only one who nailed his character. He exceeded my expectations for Patrick. I thought he brought just the right amount of queerness and comedy to the role that made him so entertaining to watch.
Now for the comparison, was justice given to the book? Yeah, absolutely. I mean, how can it be bad when the author Stephen Chbosky also the directed the film?
However, may I just say that there is a tiny bit of disappointed that I felt. Okay here it goes. As much as it pains me to say it, there really was. I know it’s my own damn fault to be disappointed since my expectation was set pretty high. Like what I said at the beginning of this review, it wasn’t the best idea to read the book first.
This is my observation: All of my friends that saw the movie and did not read the book liked the movie. That’s good. However, all of my friends who read the book and then saw the movie didn’t like the movie. That’s not so good.
Perhaps that’s only fair though, I mean exactly how many people have read the book, right? Maybe less than 5% of those who came to see the film? It’s also understandable that they had to tone the sex and drugs way down since the movie has got to appeal to a much wider audience -- It’s PG13.
Movie, okay. Book, brilliant. With all due respect to the author, Mr. Stephen Chbosky sir, I loved your novel. On the other hand, I’m curious now if the movie would have turned out better in the hands of a different director. I meant no disrespect there of any kind. It’s  really  hard to pin-point where the movie fell short in my opinion.
Let’s go to casting. What do you guys honestly think? I think the idea of Percy Jackson and Hermione Granger together would have probably worked anywhere else but this film. Lerman did try to channel Charlie and his awkwardness but it’s missing something. Perhaps he’s too good-looking for the role? I dunno. I’m imagining a young Joseph Gordon –Levitt playing Charlie to perfection. Anyway, that’s just me.
Same thing with Sam, Emma Watson was an okay choice for the role. I believe she captured the free-spirit nature that Sam has. However, I pictured Sam a lot tougher, rougher and Rock n’ Roll. My friend and I agreed that a young Mila Kunis could have been the perfect Sam. Again, I don’t know. Maybe because Sam is a chain-smoker in the book? Emma looked too dainty and proper to be Sam. She’s very beautiful though.
Mary Elizabeth? I thought Mae Whitman was too punk-rock. The guy who played Craig was too thin, isn’t he supposed to be ‘hunky.’ Nina Dobrev was too pretty to play Charlie’s sister and she didn’t embody her supposed ‘stubbornness.’
Well, I’m not a film producer. I’m just a crazy small-time blogger that doesn’t even make money from this. I’m just purely stating my opinion here.
To conclude this post, I still say go watch the film and see what the perks of being a wallflower truly are. Now if you love the novel as much as I do, still, go watch the film. It’s indeed fun seeing the characters that we love come to life.
And you know what, buy the book too and compare. See if I make any sense here.
No hating. Just blogging.
To Charlie! Cheers!

Worst type of colleague

 http://iratesassy.wordpress.com/2012/09/21/worst-type-of-colleague/

“I can't help you if you don't want to help yourself.”

Where do I even begin? The above statement says it all. I was inspired, well disgusted actually, by an office situation earlier that I thought I’d write something indirectly about it just to release the tension.
Incompetence. Now that’s a big word. Hmmm… and a bit harsh actually. What makes someone incompetent?

You sit your ass all day at work pretending to be busy but actually doing nothing. And when payday comes, you’ll be the first to rush to the ATM and get cash.
Cool. What a team player you are.

Is that incompetence? Not really. Though that’s complete and utter laziness is what it is.
So again, what makes someone incompetent?
Simple, it’s his/her inability to do the work at hand. No matter how hard you try to teach them, it goes in through the left ear, and escapes through the right. Needless to say, you’re in the wrong job missy. Or mister.

I’m not even sure if these people want to be here. Why waste your time and my time?
On a positive note, nothing’s impossible. So maybe, just maybe if you try really hard and exercise your brain tissues to their full extent you can get the hang of things. Thus, be capable of doing your job effectively. And I have no doubt that you will. Back-office work is not rocket science after all.
So what is worse then? A lazy person or an incompetent one?

Tough call.

Some people can potentially be good at what they do, but tend to be lazy for a number of reasons. In an office scenario, the list could go on…

Stupid boss
Being under-paid
Irritating colleagues
Management sucks
And on…
Broken-heart
Unhappy marriage
Personal issues
Debts

Reasons.

Laziness + Incompetence? = Deadly combination.

A person who is not even that good to begin with and turns out to be a complete slacker is probably the worst type of a colleague ever.Ugh.

Uninspiring. Irritating. Negative. And over-all eyesore, to be honest.
The door is wide-open. I’m sure there is a right place for you, outside the four-corners of this office.


Heck I'm not even sure if I'm the right person for my job, but at least I'm a team player and not a dead-weight.

There goes my rant for the day, people. Thanks for reading my rubbish post.
And I’m sorry I couldn’t give the 5 minutes of your life back ^^

Cheers.

P.S. Something more cheerful next time ^^